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I have a guy who contacted me and here is his story
"Hi Dante you might rember me my names ***** (HIDDEN FOR ITS HIS PERSONAL BUSINESS) i sent u an email the other
day telling you about my story..about my attempts to gain mass over the
last 3 years.
I need your help dante and i dont no where else to turn... im fukin sick
of bein skinny. I weighed in today at 173lbs and even tho that isnt
too bad i must be carrying about 10-15lbs of unecersarry fat. Put it
like this my arms are 12.5 inches and my chest is 39.5 inches. Which
is low for my weight correct?
I look in the mirror and i jus am not happy with what i see at all when
i walk i feel small i hate it so much. my confidence is low because
of it, my job is shit because of it, i have no girlfriend because of
it...its so depressing.
I want a body to be proud of. I want to feel comfterball topless...
seriously im not sure if u did this but i do, i wear extra layers of
clothes in a lame attempt to look bigger. Right now im sitting hear
in 3 layers and its the summer. Summer as u prob know is the worst time
for an ectomorph because your skinyness is exposed.. (cant hide under
that jumper)i dont wanna hav to go through another summer like this!!
I work a night shift job cos im too afraid to go out in the day with
the body i have...seriously thats how bad its getting to me. When i
goto work i ware 2 t shirts, then a shirt then a jumper over that. 4
layers!! jus to try look that lil bit bigger...
i goto the gym in several layors cos every1 is bigger than me there..
i feel embarresedabout asking for protein after i finish my workout.
Like i said i started off at around 135lbs i believe and in 3 years i
mus hav only gained about arround 15-20lbs of decent weight. God that
makes me feel so angry when i thinkabout how hard ive tried, and how
little i have to show for it. All that time and money wasted...damn.
Im ready to go to war as u put it. But i cant do it without you by my
side.
i dont have the money to pay 500 dollars u ask for im in a low paid job,
at the end of each month after i pay for my food and my other bills
im left with about $200 so it would take me arround 3 months to save
up for what your asking. I would be willing to pay in install ments,
hell id even pay you double,tripple quadruple when i have the money...
that is how much this means to me.
Im begging u to help me dante, im on my knees. Help a brother out."
OK THIS IS DANTE, Guys this gets to me because at one time I was so skinny at 140lbs and 6 foot I felt the same way this guy does. My forearms were so skinny i wore long sleeve shirts even in the summer and that went on for about 2 years. It sucks to be that self concious but when you hear people saying "your so skinny, your so darn skinny"....and thats the last thing you want to hear because your doing everything in your power just to look normal....it just really sucks. I dont think people who havent gone thru being painfully skinny can understand the havoc it wreaks on your confidence. So this email got to me but here is the dilemna
1)I dont like payment plans after being taken 2-3 times so far doing that and refuse to do them now. Teaching all this to someone is kind of like giving someone a tub of protein powder and trying to get paid later. Once they have gone thru it all they feel "why the hell should I pay the guy, I used all the protein powder and its not there anymore"
2)Im very busy with alot of people wanting me to train them and I dont feel I should overlook someone who pays me up front for someone I feel very sorry for--I dont think thats fair but on the other hand.....
3)This kids story like I said gets to me--it hurts reading it and I cant stand not helping him in some way.
So if any of my really knowledgeable trainees Ive personally trained on this board want to take him on and help him out let me know. He is willing to pay but it might be 50 to 100 dollars a month for 5-10months and like I said there is risk in that. I do ask this.....I want you to be very thorough and prompt with answering his emails and help him to the best of your ability. I also want this following part and there is no exceptions: if you get stuck anywhere with him that you seek my help here and Ill show you how to get him over the hump. I think you guys know that Im pretty good at fixing problems when they arise and that and the fine details how to go about all of this is the huge difference usually in the people who try doing this themselves and the people who get my personal help......since this has my name on it, I need to offer my input if you get stuck with him. I dont want you cut and pasting exactly what I had you doing because THATS WHAT I HAD YOU DOING and is not tuned for him. Ill show you what to ask him to start this and you can type it all up and pass it by me if you want (for my input if you want it) and then we will go from there. If this works out well you might see me pushing other people that want me to train them your way. Email me at my aol address if you want to undertake this thanks
*****You guys know Im very very thorough when training someone and I keep a sharp eye on the workouts and the progression ....the 4 week measurements and weighins....and the thoughts that come out of your mouth on how you are feeling and doing.....and I expect the same of you here according to this kid
"Hi Dante you might rember me my names ***** (HIDDEN FOR ITS HIS PERSONAL BUSINESS) i sent u an email the other
day telling you about my story..about my attempts to gain mass over the
last 3 years.
I need your help dante and i dont no where else to turn... im fukin sick
of bein skinny. I weighed in today at 173lbs and even tho that isnt
too bad i must be carrying about 10-15lbs of unecersarry fat. Put it
like this my arms are 12.5 inches and my chest is 39.5 inches. Which
is low for my weight correct?
I look in the mirror and i jus am not happy with what i see at all when
i walk i feel small i hate it so much. my confidence is low because
of it, my job is shit because of it, i have no girlfriend because of
it...its so depressing.
I want a body to be proud of. I want to feel comfterball topless...
seriously im not sure if u did this but i do, i wear extra layers of
clothes in a lame attempt to look bigger. Right now im sitting hear
in 3 layers and its the summer. Summer as u prob know is the worst time
for an ectomorph because your skinyness is exposed.. (cant hide under
that jumper)i dont wanna hav to go through another summer like this!!
I work a night shift job cos im too afraid to go out in the day with
the body i have...seriously thats how bad its getting to me. When i
goto work i ware 2 t shirts, then a shirt then a jumper over that. 4
layers!! jus to try look that lil bit bigger...
i goto the gym in several layors cos every1 is bigger than me there..
i feel embarresedabout asking for protein after i finish my workout.
Like i said i started off at around 135lbs i believe and in 3 years i
mus hav only gained about arround 15-20lbs of decent weight. God that
makes me feel so angry when i thinkabout how hard ive tried, and how
little i have to show for it. All that time and money wasted...damn.
Im ready to go to war as u put it. But i cant do it without you by my
side.
i dont have the money to pay 500 dollars u ask for im in a low paid job,
at the end of each month after i pay for my food and my other bills
im left with about $200 so it would take me arround 3 months to save
up for what your asking. I would be willing to pay in install ments,
hell id even pay you double,tripple quadruple when i have the money...
that is how much this means to me.
Im begging u to help me dante, im on my knees. Help a brother out."
OK THIS IS DANTE, Guys this gets to me because at one time I was so skinny at 140lbs and 6 foot I felt the same way this guy does. My forearms were so skinny i wore long sleeve shirts even in the summer and that went on for about 2 years. It sucks to be that self concious but when you hear people saying "your so skinny, your so darn skinny"....and thats the last thing you want to hear because your doing everything in your power just to look normal....it just really sucks. I dont think people who havent gone thru being painfully skinny can understand the havoc it wreaks on your confidence. So this email got to me but here is the dilemna
1)I dont like payment plans after being taken 2-3 times so far doing that and refuse to do them now. Teaching all this to someone is kind of like giving someone a tub of protein powder and trying to get paid later. Once they have gone thru it all they feel "why the hell should I pay the guy, I used all the protein powder and its not there anymore"
2)Im very busy with alot of people wanting me to train them and I dont feel I should overlook someone who pays me up front for someone I feel very sorry for--I dont think thats fair but on the other hand.....
3)This kids story like I said gets to me--it hurts reading it and I cant stand not helping him in some way.
So if any of my really knowledgeable trainees Ive personally trained on this board want to take him on and help him out let me know. He is willing to pay but it might be 50 to 100 dollars a month for 5-10months and like I said there is risk in that. I do ask this.....I want you to be very thorough and prompt with answering his emails and help him to the best of your ability. I also want this following part and there is no exceptions: if you get stuck anywhere with him that you seek my help here and Ill show you how to get him over the hump. I think you guys know that Im pretty good at fixing problems when they arise and that and the fine details how to go about all of this is the huge difference usually in the people who try doing this themselves and the people who get my personal help......since this has my name on it, I need to offer my input if you get stuck with him. I dont want you cut and pasting exactly what I had you doing because THATS WHAT I HAD YOU DOING and is not tuned for him. Ill show you what to ask him to start this and you can type it all up and pass it by me if you want (for my input if you want it) and then we will go from there. If this works out well you might see me pushing other people that want me to train them your way. Email me at my aol address if you want to undertake this thanks
*****You guys know Im very very thorough when training someone and I keep a sharp eye on the workouts and the progression ....the 4 week measurements and weighins....and the thoughts that come out of your mouth on how you are feeling and doing.....and I expect the same of you here according to this kid
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