I just wanted to see if any one else on this forum has the same issue i do...
A year ago I married a woman a little older then me and became the step father of her 12 year old girl and 7 year old girl, we just had our first baby together like 2 weeks ago. Here's the thing, when we first started dating she seemed to enjoy going to the gym with me occasionally.....Doing active things like maybe playing tennis with the kids and even (on rare occasion) cooking for me...(to impress me i guess lol)
After we got married the active lifestyle stopped immediantly, i hate to use the word lazy because she does work a 8-5 job so i respect that BUT.........what do you guy or girls do to motivate the rest of your family?
It doesnt have to just be motivating in the gym but how do you motivate them to eat better......It drives me nuts what she eats and feeds the kids because she never cooks at all!! Everything they eat comes out of a box, pop tarts, corn dogs, ext.............
I dont want to be a jerk to her but if I ever bring it up she grows horns and flips on me because she feels like Im questioning her as a mother......What advice do you have to try and motivate them? I cook all the time but they never eat anything i cook.
A year ago I married a woman a little older then me and became the step father of her 12 year old girl and 7 year old girl, we just had our first baby together like 2 weeks ago. Here's the thing, when we first started dating she seemed to enjoy going to the gym with me occasionally.....Doing active things like maybe playing tennis with the kids and even (on rare occasion) cooking for me...(to impress me i guess lol)
After we got married the active lifestyle stopped immediantly, i hate to use the word lazy because she does work a 8-5 job so i respect that BUT.........what do you guy or girls do to motivate the rest of your family?
It doesnt have to just be motivating in the gym but how do you motivate them to eat better......It drives me nuts what she eats and feeds the kids because she never cooks at all!! Everything they eat comes out of a box, pop tarts, corn dogs, ext.............
I dont want to be a jerk to her but if I ever bring it up she grows horns and flips on me because she feels like Im questioning her as a mother......What advice do you have to try and motivate them? I cook all the time but they never eat anything i cook.
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