Okay, so i know this is sort of a strange place to seek advice on matters such as these, but i don't think it could hurt and i really don't know who else to go to.
So, the other night my girlfriend came home to me, pretty drunk from being out with her girlfriends. She has always been a bit troubled. Hard to get close to and just very unwilling to let anyone in.
But all is good this night and we go to bed, and i, sober, begin to ''cuddle'' a bit with her. But she seems pretty uncomfortable and unwilling, pushing my hands away as she sometimes does. This really annoys me and i make a crack about her acting like she was molested as a child. She then goes completely quiet and stiff as a board. I get really nervous and try to talk to her, but all she does is lie there. I look over her shoulder and shes crying her eyes out into the pillow. I keep asking her what's wrong and that i really ger concerned when she reacts like this, but she just tells me to lie down and go to sleep and that she doesn't want to talk about anything.
The next morning she's sobered up, but doesn't say a word. I try to hold her and i ask her to say something, but she just ignores me.
She leaves, and a couple of hours later she sends me a text where she writes that she is sorry about everything, and that she just can't talk about it, but that her rich-ass asshole of a fucking father used to have his ''hands down her pants'', as she wrote, when she was a little girl.
First of all, i feel like ripping the fucking throat out of anyone who could do that to his own little girl. I've only met her dad once, because he travels alot. She's this very skinny, very beautiful dark-skinned girl with the bluest eyes in the world. I really like her.
But what the hell do i do? She's never told anyone, and she doesn't want to talk about it anymore. I have told her that we NEED to talk about it. I just don't know how to get past something like that? We're both 19, and she still lives with her parents
So, the other night my girlfriend came home to me, pretty drunk from being out with her girlfriends. She has always been a bit troubled. Hard to get close to and just very unwilling to let anyone in.
But all is good this night and we go to bed, and i, sober, begin to ''cuddle'' a bit with her. But she seems pretty uncomfortable and unwilling, pushing my hands away as she sometimes does. This really annoys me and i make a crack about her acting like she was molested as a child. She then goes completely quiet and stiff as a board. I get really nervous and try to talk to her, but all she does is lie there. I look over her shoulder and shes crying her eyes out into the pillow. I keep asking her what's wrong and that i really ger concerned when she reacts like this, but she just tells me to lie down and go to sleep and that she doesn't want to talk about anything.
The next morning she's sobered up, but doesn't say a word. I try to hold her and i ask her to say something, but she just ignores me.
She leaves, and a couple of hours later she sends me a text where she writes that she is sorry about everything, and that she just can't talk about it, but that her rich-ass asshole of a fucking father used to have his ''hands down her pants'', as she wrote, when she was a little girl.
First of all, i feel like ripping the fucking throat out of anyone who could do that to his own little girl. I've only met her dad once, because he travels alot. She's this very skinny, very beautiful dark-skinned girl with the bluest eyes in the world. I really like her.
But what the hell do i do? She's never told anyone, and she doesn't want to talk about it anymore. I have told her that we NEED to talk about it. I just don't know how to get past something like that? We're both 19, and she still lives with her parents
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